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Originally posted by bluz4
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i was seeing this guy for about three months. saw each other whenever we could, talked every day, texted each other often, he said he liked me, i truly liked him. things were going really well.
i thought ... then he just spent his entire birthday (9 a.m. to 3 a.m.) with his ex-girlfriend. yes, they are friends but come on, a whole day together. what is that about? i've given him the boot but was that a wise move?
suffering blues to the 4th power.
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Bluz4-
Sorry I'm a little late getting back to you. I've been busy.
Yes, that was wise booting him. I can tell right off the bat he's one of those guys who has been broken up with his ex but probably still has random sex with her here and there. Thats why he spent his b-day with her. I dated a chick for a couple of years...after we broke up I started dating another chick. Meanwhile I was still tagging my ex and my new GF at the same time, raw dogg all the time . At night I'd be tagging my current GF and in the morning when we'd wake up....then during lunch I'd have my ex come over and we'd have sex. Neither of them suspected anything, finally I broke down and told my ex like a dumbass. And that led into me telling her about all the other times I cheated on her, but thats another thread....
You did the right thing if you're looking for a serious relationship. if you don't really want to be tied down right now but still want some sort of a relationship....I'd say you should go back to him if you still liek him and talk to him about why you gave him the boot and then try to reconcile your differences. But as I said, if you want something solid and secure.....look elsewhere.
BTW- go out and do something to get your mind off of him. Sitting at the house/apt thinking about this crapp isnt gonna help you or your chances of finding someone else who will treat you much better.
Hope I helped...
Craig