Allison, first of all try to imagine how confusing the whole system is to parents who are not familiar with it. Had I not been Greek, I would have been blown away by the first bill...almost $1000 for the semester. That does not include my daughter's incidentals for date party T-shirts, trips, etc. She went to jr. college for a year like you, so I was able to budget for this, plus I wanted it for her. But to someone who did not do this themselves, it would be total confusion and seem like an unnecessary college expense.
My advice would be to stress that you will work hard to keep your grades up. Most non-Greeks have an image of frivolity and partying, so you will need to dispel that. You sound like a hard worker, tell them that will not stop. Also, stress philanthropy and service. And also friendship, I have lifelong friendships through my sisters.
I really do understand where your parents are coming from if they are completely unfamiliar. But you sound sincere, explain all the positives involved and not only assure them you will not participate in the negatives but show them by your lifestyle.
If you want more "motherly advice" email me, lol.
Susan
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