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Kinda the "rule" in my chapter (at least when I was in school - could have changed now) was that if a sister wanted to date a guy someone else in the chapter had previously dated, she would go to that sister and ask if it would be okay with her. Meaning, bX would go to aX and ask if her feelings would be hurt if bX dated you. If aX said "go ahead", then all is cool. If she said "no, I'd prefer you didn't date him", then perhaps bX should think twice about going out with you for fear of hurting a friendship. I guess it all depends on how serious you and aX were. If it was a two month casual thing, I would hope she wouldn't have a problem with bX dating you. If you two were exclusive for a year and a half, there may be some issues.
Good luck!
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