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I agree that it totally depends. I dated this guy for about a month, earlier this year. After things eventually ended with us, one of the girls in my house began dating him a couple weeks later. Honestly, I didn't care, cause we weren't all that great a couple. I liked him, but I didn't like him enough to continue dating him. They're still together to this day, and I'm actually happy for them. Though, the bad story I have about this is I was with this guy in xxx fraternity for about a year and a half. We basically broke up cause he moved away and we had a long distance thing going, so I started getting close with another guy in his house. So I broke up with the guy, and started dating this other guy in his house. Basically, it split his whole fraternity in two...they all fought constantly, and many guys left the house because of all the arguments. Hopefully you'll never have to deal with that kind of drama though; it was so ridiculous.
So, to sum up, it really depends on how serious this girl was for you and how prone to drama she can be. And let me tell you, if she had a lot of feelings for you, she's most likely going to be dramatic about it...if not outwardly, it will definitely hurt her inwardly. Also, it depends on how dramatic her sorority can be. Cause as was mentioned before, some houses can make bigger deals about it than the ex themselves actually do. As was definitely the case in my situation. Anyways, good luck with it! I completely feel for you; it's a tough place to be.
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