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Originally posted by cashmoney
That Eclipse sounds tight!
Honestly, I think you're moving way too quick. You've been dating for 2 yrs and already picking out rings. If you want to be married only once ( which I think you're that type of girl), I suggest you date this guy a little longer.
Now, my response to the actual situation. I think you should sit him down and have a talk with him. You need to tell him that you don't want him to buy you a ring yet until he's paid off his debt and taken care of his finances. Explain to him that you don't want to start in debt. I think he's gonna sell his "baby" inorder to pay off the tuition and living expenses, then get a new car that doesn't cost him too much to keep up ( I'm sure he puts a lot of money into that car to keep it looking tight). He'll be doing all that while saving money to buy you a ring. He's getting his $hit together in preping for you. It could be anytime after he gets his new car.
Keep me posted on his actions.
Cash-
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This is actually some really good advice. There's something to be said about waiting to be engaged until at least your senior year in college. I probably did the most maturing in terms of what I wanted out of my life and my relationships between my junior and senior years. 2 years when you're in college really isn't the best indicator of whether or not someone is "the one"--especially when there is so much you haven't seen or done. Does anyone really regret waiting?