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Originally posted by cashmoney
Mary, you're missing what I'm trying to get at. I'm trying to break it down and find the cause of why someone wants to do it. What makes a person do it? Some people do it to get back at their BF/GF, I understand that. But my questions is, what is the primal urge for people to cheat even when they have no valid reason to do it? I think it goes back to us trying to survive as humans.
And what do you think actually makes something instinctive? Its something that a species has learned to do over a long period of time and then it becomes natural. They automatically do it inorder to survive. I know this may seem a little deep/crazy.....but its true. Its just over the centuries society has changed and we as humans have remained the same genetically/physically for much longer.
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I would have to agree. I've been in a relationship where I was cheated on, and his parent's have been married for a VERY LONG time...so where did he learn it from? It's somewhat instictive...men want to "spread their seed" so to speak. I dunno. God bless my parents for their (almost) 25 years of marriage...I can only hope to find a guy like my daddy that will treat me the way I deserve to be treated...and not cheat. KARMA BABY!