Hey guys,
I posted a couple of posts up about how excited I was about getting my big sister...but now I was hoping for a little bit of advice.
It's been like three weeks since big sister revealing, and I haven't seen my big once since then. She doesn't have a cell phone, and is never online on AIM. I e-mailed her the week after big sister revealing, and still haven't gotten responses. So after listening to all my pledge sisters talk about all the amazing things they're doing with their bigs, I'm starting to feel a bit left out. A couple of days ago I put a sign I made for her on my computer in her file in our file room, and haven't heard back about that either. Well, today I was sitting with a bunch of my pledge sisters and regular sisters at a table on campus, and she walked up, and said hi to a couple of people before me, and then said that she was doing an exchange to Malta next semester???
I'm starting to feel like she got me just because I put her at the top of my list, and maybe she didn't want me? And if she's really going to Malta, she'll miss my initiation, which is next semester (We do a LONG pledge process). Also, someone suggested to me that since she's the only other person in our family, she was obligated to take a little so her family didn't die out.
I feel weird talking to my G.M., just because she was my first choice, and I don't really want to complain. Just not sure what to do.
Has anyone been in this situation? Would love to hear, or get some advice...Thanks guys.