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Old 11-20-2003, 12:27 AM
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Re: Re: AchtungBaby80's Dating Advice...

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Originally posted by cashmoney
I'm wondering if both her parents had dated for awhile her mom would have figured out her dad has issues and woulda been together at all? That said, time probably would have made all the difference. Now, this is of course assuming both of her biological parents were married and she wasn't born out of wedlock ( you don't have to answer that achtung).
My parents did exactly what you would've approved of...they dated for about 4 years before getting married. Neither were married before. And they got divorced. So really, how long you date doesn't matter.

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Can cheating on your spouse be genetic?
No. Cheating is a learned behavior. People learn by example set by parents, peers, etc. Thus, cheating is not "genetic"...how a person deals with relationships is affected by the ways in which the people they are in contact with behave. Either that, or there is a totally different, deeply-rooted issue at work here...low self-esteem, fear of rejection, etc. I've been to many shrinks in my day, and this is what I have learned.

Last edited by AchtungBaby80; 11-20-2003 at 12:29 AM.
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