[honeychile]

I'm not Catholic, but I've taken the Christian version of those tests - twice. I cannot recommend them highly enough! The two times I took the tests were with men who swore they loved me & knew me enough to marry me, yet I knew they didn't. It took the hard facts in black & white to make them see how wrong they were - that, like most people, they had projected what they wanted me to be like as the woman they "loved".

I found out about the tests after getting involved with a divorce recovery ministry. I know the one pastor from years ago (his son & I played soccer together), and he suggested I try them. Those tests are truly a god-send, and I think you'll all find that most churches will ask you to take them (or at least some counseling) prior to marriage. If the church doesn't, ask for it!! You have nothing to lose but potential heartache!!

I wish I could remember the names of the two sets of tests - if I can, I'll post them.