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Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
QUESTION #4: How does he/she treat other people?
The one most important thing that makes any relationship work is the ability to give. By giving, we mean the ability to give another person pleasure. Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they wrapped up in themselves and self-absorbed? To measure this, think about the following: How do they treat people whom they do not have to be nice to, such as a waiters, bus boy, taxi driver, etc. How do they treat parents and siblings? Do they have gratitude and appreciation? If they don't have gratitude for the people who have given them everything, you cannot you--who can't do nearly as much for them! Do they gossip and speak badly about others? Someone who gossips cannot be someone who loves others. You can be sure that someone who treats others poorly will eventually treat you poorly as well.
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This is a very good tip. Ignoring #4 is something that always leave me
about many people. Time after time I see people go out with guys/gals who treat other people like isht. If they can't treat everyday people with respect then how can they treat their guy/girl with respect. What makes you special? What's even more strange is when they "find out" that their guy/girl is a a$$hole/binch, they are totally surpised that they can act that way towards them. I am puzzled how people overlook this.