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Originally posted by GeekyPenguin
OK, here's a fun one for you:
How can I send off unavailable signals to guys I've known forever? They know my life situation right now so it should be blatantly clear that I do not want to date them, and they just don't get it!!!
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GeekyPenguin-
Forever? Like 5 yrs, 10 yrs? If they're really close to you and you've known them for more than 4-6 yrs, sit them down or see them in person and ask them if they like you/wanna date you. If they say no, you'll feel dumb for thinking they liked you. If they say yes, then proceed to tell them that you are so glad that you two are friends and that you would rather keep him has a close friend than date him and risk loosing the friendship.
If they are not close friends and you've been friends with them for 1,2,3 yrs......make yourself more scarce for the time being. Don't see them for a little while. They'll start getting upset. Just act like you've been really busy lately. Then wait a week after they say something about not seeing you in awhile, call them up and spend some time with them on the phone. Have a long conversation. Make it one of those "I'm so glad that you're my friend" conversations. Them tell them you're glad the two of you have never hooked up or did anything and stayed friends. He'll get the picture clearly.
Hope I helped.
Cashmoney-