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Originally posted by Southerngrl
I'm 31 and have recently met a 23 y/o guy who I've been talking to lately. We have a lot in common and laugh all the time when we're together. He wants to go out, but I have just never dated anyone this much younger than me. People usually think I am about 27 y/o, but it is still obvious that he is much younger. I would love to hear your opinions about a women dating younger guys. Thanks!
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I'm thinking of a couple of things. If you're having sex with this guy its gonna be one hell of a passionate relationship. It'll be steamy in the begining. I'm all for people dating someone much older than them at least once, the guy will learn so much from you. You'll probably be wearing the pants in the relationship to some degree.
What I'm about to say is an honest opinion and is based on my experience and that of my peers. All guys need to date a chick older than them at least once. It gives us a heads up on women. When I was 20 I dated a 30 yr old professor from USF in Tampa, FL. The sex was incredible, she turned me into what I am present day in the bed...lol. I liked her and she was in love with me. But, the age thing kept lingering back in my mind. I went to Tampa every weekend to go see her. Then one day I was sitting in my apartment and thinking about her later on down the road. I decided it would be better for me to leave her now than years from then. The reason being because she was so much older than me. I didn't want to end up being 30 and she'd be 40, I'd be looking for younger girls when we hit that age. I thought she deserved more than that and didn't have enough time to play around like I did. As much as I liked her I didnt want to waste her time. In october my friend Chris broke up with his Fiance (she's 31) because of the age factor. He started thinking about later on down the road and her being so much older now....what would it be like then? It sucked.
I would say the relationship itself would be fun for you two. It'll make you feel younger and him feel like he's getting the royal treament while learning so much about chicks. In the end, though, I don't think its gonna work if you want something long term. If you're looking for a person to just casually date, I say go for it. Its so much fun. But if you're wanting to settle down and have someone serious....I wouldn't advise it.