I'm biased on this because it goes both ways. There's a girl I did not like AT ALL from high school who pledged a local on campus that I wasn't really a fan of. I didn't find out she even went to UWP until I saw her in their jacket after initiation, by which point it was too late to say anything. I might have casually pulled aside one of theirs sisters and mentioned it if I had known, but it seems to have worked out okay for them.
I also told one of the fraternities on campus that a guy they were looking at was not so hot - they ended up taking him anyway, and although he caused a lot of drama and is no longer a member, I think they're still bitter at me for telling them that.
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