Thanks Ms. CT4
, I was hoping someone would bring this up. I have a friend who lives in.........well lets say America. She met this man and they both fell in love. He already has two children, but later got a vasectomy. When they met she expressed she wanted children, he told her he would get a reversal procedure done prior to them getting murr'd and errythang. So months pass which turned into a year, which turned into an engagement ring, BUT he has yet to make an appointment to get his middle leg together so they could have children. So she brings up the topic again and his response at that point was children are so overrated, and having the procedure would be too painful(physically)...........
WHATEVER!!! Boyfriend had NO intentions on getting a reversal or having children, so long story short people, is that they broke up because she simply didn't want to settle. Can I blame her??? Absolutely NOT! Not because she is my friend, but from the giddy up she told him she WANTED children, neices and nephews spending weekends over are not the same as having your own chirrens running around the house driving you batty at times but looking like pure angels as they sleep. She bailed out because of other things going on in the relationship that were not kosher, but basically she knew that if she stayed with him, she would have to settle for what he didn't want which were children. My point is while she already knew of his children, he should not have agreed that children would be an option for them if he had no intentions on doing the necessary to have them. I could understand if he had his procedure and his middle leg was....well, you know, limp.........but uuuuuuggggggghhhhhh.......don't get my hopes all up high because you are so in love with me and then piddle around later on..........
Me personally, lets say if I were 10 years younger, I would not have had a problem with Brock saying he didn't want kids, but now that I am older.....heck yeah I want somebotty to love, cuddle and cherish................I think I would have had to step too.