[ladygreek]

For Joan, just getting engaged was a milestone. Like she told dude, the fact that she found someone who loved her that much was what her self-esteem needed.

As for compromises. That would be a tough one for me. But I agree, that is why you should know someone well before you get engaged rather than using it as the getting to know you time.

Toni Childs cracked me up "Look my ring had a baby!"