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Originally posted by cashmoney
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I've been there on wanting to be with two people at once. Its hard to decide what to do. I think the reason why you want to be with your ex is because you two are still friends and still close ( to an extent). The friendship that formed while you two were dating has created a place for him in your heart. Thats why you want to be there for him, you still care about him very much. I'm the same way with an ex of mine. We still talk as good friends and she's even sent me baby pics of her older sisters son she just had. I'd break my back for that chick. Still, us being together in the future just isnt gonna happen. I think you should be there for your ex during his issue and help him through this time. But be there as his friend I wouldn't get romanticly involved if i were you. If the two of you arent dating now, you dont need to get romanticly involved with this guy while he's going through this serious stuff.
Now, about S.......
Its sounds to me like he just wants you to be his phuck buddy but doesnt want to offically label whats going on between you two because of a comitment. Look at it like this, him being like that means he can be with another girl behind your back and not feel guilty about it since you two arent dating. At the same time, you're probably his main girl and therefore doesnt want you to be messing around with other guys. Thats why he gets jealous. This guy sounds like he's a pimp, and he's making you look bad by not dating you while still hooking up with you all the time while you want some sort of a relationship. It really depends on what you want. If you want a relationship, leave S.......you're not gonna get it from him as of now. If you like him that much and want him in your life and the two of you not dating doesnt bother you...then stay with him.
Hope I helped.
Cash-
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Hey hon, thanks for the advice.
I have not talked to S since late late late Friday night b/c when I called and asked my mom for advice (I know wtf was I thinking?!
) she pretty much said that if she found out I was with him then she didn't want me in her life. Needless to say she DOESN'T like him. So yea that make's everything even more confusing.
I hung out with D on Sat. night and then last night too. We're not dating but I would not be thrilled if he had another girl in his life and I know he feels the same if I had another guy in my life. He asked me to his fraternities Christmas party last night and obviously I am going to go. Part of me wanted to take him as my semiformal date and part of me ewanted to take S, but I know I will end up either not going or taking D b/c I do not have one single friend that likes S and they would all be major bitches to him the entire time! Oy.
Ok thanks again for the advice.