See I missed it last week so when I saw it last night and was like dang you all are engaged. WTH?!!?!? I been with Mr. CT4 longer than those 2 have been together.

Joan is IN LUST and got caught up in the heat of the moment. She cannot bear to be the one who does not get married.
She jumped the gun. Have they even met each other's family? It's obvious that no serious REALISTIC conversation took place.
But taking it back to today in real life, applying it to me . . . COMPROMISE IS HARD!!