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Originally posted by rainbowbrightCS
and here is mine.
Ok I am finally getting used to living in GA. I have been here for a year but never really adventured out more then I needed to.
So now I am in class and there is the guy named "BOB" there who I thought he was really cute since about June. I started to talk to him after class and what not, but then that class ended and now a new quearter started, and picture that, he is in this one too. Now while in class we would have group discusions and when I would talk he would say something that he rememered that I said or did. Like day one I said my name is Christia and he put in "she is from AZ" Now about two weeks ago we got out of class early and we talked at our cars from like 50 minutes. Then last week the same thing happened, we chatted at our cars again. I told him that I am Roman Catholic, and he shocked because he is too. (this is the South, were Roman Catholic is an endangered religion) He then told me about his church and I told him how little I know about the churches here. Then he invited me to go to his church. I thought it was like a "hey, came to my church, its the best" and then he was asking me which service I was going to so he can meet me there. I told him which one it will be (I have to wait till next week to go, but he knows this). Then we was telling me about the store his family owns and its past and how to get there. I was not sure if he was just proud of it or wanting me to see it, but then he told me when he is usually there to I know when to come by.
I don't know if this is southern hospitally or if he likes me. I gave his friend me number (for a project) so he can get my number easily.
Should I ask him out, or what? I don't know what to do, I never dealt with a southern guy before.
Christia
Sorry about the length and the type-o's
Christia
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Christia,
First off, I'm glad that you're getting use to living in Georgia!
Secondly, I got a kick out of reading your story about "BOB". Reminds me of when my husband and I first started seeing each other. He's from Ohio, and I'm a native Georgian. We were so excited when we discovered that we were both Catholic. You're right, it is somewhat of a rarity down here.
From what you've said "BOB" sounds interested in you. He obviously wants to see you at church, so I'd suggest taking him up on his offer to meet you there. After Mass has ended, if you're feeling comfortable around him, then invite him to go out to lunch with you (or breakfast -- I don't know what time the Mass is). A lunch date is pretty casual, so there shouldn't be much pressure on either of you to feel as if you're on a big "date." I think it would be a great opportunity to get to know each other better and find out what other things you have in common.
Good luck!