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Hi,
I may be wrong but this does not sound like a pledging issue, it sounds more like a relationship one. You should consider what you want from your relationship and ask your boyfriend the same. If this was a job or a class, would he feel the same?
How does he react with your other friends? Is he the type of guy that wants you to him self? Is so, this is dangerous.
Now don't get me wrong, he sounds caring and may be an awesome guy but if he wants to put limits on your goals and aspiration then thread lightly. Ask yourself, if he was involved in something he really wanted would I have a problem ? Would I be willing to give up a couple weeks? The answers to those question should give enough guidance.
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