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Originally posted by James
You already went to dinner with him? Why did you go? Thats like a date. Isn't that leading him on? Sending him really mixed signals?
As a matter of policy i don't do date functions with girls I am not interested in and/or are unattractive that like me in a romantic way. Its creating a wierd scene.
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I agree with James. You said in your first post that you knew he had romantic feelings for you. You still went ahead and hung out with him. I'm not trying to criticize you. Just trying to understand. I'm sure you wanted to hang out just as friends but you knew this guy's intentions were not that. I think you could've nipped this thing in the butt from the beginning had you declined to hang out with him. Now you're in a bigger mess because, in his eyes, you agreed to go out with him. Whether or not you call it date, I'm sure he thinks it was.
You need to tell him flat out so that there's no room for any misinterpretation that you're not interested. Plain and simple. No flirting, no accepting invitations to hang out. Keep it professional.