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My honey misses me when sorority events take up a lot of time, but he never gets angry! I know it is hard, but you have to do what is best for you. A boyfriend who truly wants the best for you will not intentionally make you feel bad for doing something for yourself. I am a founder of my chapter, and let me tell you...founding a chapter takes a lot of time! My man was so proud when we got our charter. Ever since, he has celebrated every success right along with us. Next month, our chapter is honoring him with Beta Sigma Phi's "Envoy" status, an honorary degree for the men who support Beta and its members.
When you are in a relationship, you make a commitment to nurture that relationship, to share of yourself and your time to make it stronger. If you want a relationship to work, you have to be willing to make some sacrifices for it; however, you are not expected to give every waking hour to your boyfriend. If you feel that you are giving the relationship the time it needs, then let your boyfriend adjust to the reality that your time is divided now. Perhaps you could ask him what he wants in the relationship. Try to make your time together extra special. When you have to be apart, send him cute notes or sexy little e-mails to keep things interesting
Erica