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I'm a collegiate and I totally understand that to an extent-- I would hate to think of people rifling thorugh my belongings or taking cigarettes or penalizing me for them.
However drinking in the house is risk managemet and a big issue that could get your charter pulled or house lost on my campus-- and I think that if the alum want to handle it within the fraternity and not get you expelled or in trouble with the college, but deal it on their basis, then they are smart!!! In that case, then i can understand both sides completely.
Try to talk it out with them, this sounds rather one sided on your part. No alum could be that beastly, and I truly doubt they are. try talking about why they want to search-- it sounds that they have reason. and tell your frat if they want to drink, to do so away from the house to avoid any kind of problems... i don't understand why you would even want to represent yoruself that horribly-- please don't defend the house-- it sounds like a horrible issue.
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