Wow, you are good, really good. Thanks a lot for your suggestions.
I also think that the other girl has feelings for my friend's ex. I am certain that he doesn't like her, but I might be wrong. There is a lot of drama in this circle which makes me glad that I only hang with my friend. I know her friends, but they aren't my friends.
Everything you wrote is on target except this part:
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For some reason I get this feeling like she is not very independent, like maybe she's the type of girl who latches on to a guy and is always by his side. Am I right? I also have a feeling she can bent out of shape over a guy pretty easy, am I right? If I am, just do what I said and help her find better things.
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She is really independent, and he is the first real relationship that she has had in a long time. Plus she loves him and had hoped that they would settle down. I think that is why it has been so hard for her to let him go.
I have tried to be there for her which I will continue to do. She has been focusing on other things like work and decorating her home which is occupying her time and taking her mind off this. I guess that it will just take time. Thanks again.