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Originally posted by smiley21
my bf and i supposedly had broken up a little over a month ago. he said that i deserved to be with someone better. in the last two weeks, things have been really good between us. it is like he is my boyfriend all over again. in the past few days, he has been talking about wanted to get married really soon. then on monday, a dozen BEAUTIFUL red roses were delivered to my job. should i expect that he wants to be together again? he never actually said it but if he doesnt want to be together, wouldnt he be leading me on?
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First off, supposedly??? How can you supposedly be broken up? Thats pretty shitty that he left a back door for himself in case he wanted to start having sex with you and not date you or if he wasnt sure whether or not he wanted to dump you. In any case, I'd assume that he wants to be with you again. I think what happened is that he went out to try to find something better for him and he couldn't. Now he misses the compainionship and all the other good things about dating you. I think right now he's on an emotional rollercoaster. Guys get kind of screwy sometimes in the head and start thinking about marriage, relationships, their ex they loved and being with the best they've had when they're getting lonely. However, I don't think its smart for you to get right back into a serious relationship/engagement with this guy until he's proven himself worthwhile. Maybe you guys can start dating again, but don't forget what happened to you last time. You can forgive, but don't ever forget. That said, I think you'll be fine.
p.s.- Shultzz does have a point. I think he's missing the sex too, but he also misses the other stuff.
Craig-