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Originally posted by lovelyivy84
Well I can't judge your situation, since I'm not being faced with anything similar, but it seems like you're making this kinda dramatic.
It is never a good idea to involve yourself in another couple's relationship. I don't care how good friends you are, you end up regretting it.
Putting ina keyblogger and monitoring what her husband is doing just seems like a bit much to me- I know you want to be helpful, but that is sooo invasive, and even if he is not cheating, you might find out things that are NOT your business, and that you never wanted to know about your friend or her husband.
Like I said, I cant judge cause it ain't me, but I think you would be wiser to just put in a new password for your internet acccounts and make sure that EVERYONE in your house knows that he is not to have it.
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I am not going into HIS house and nosing around-- he is in MY house---therefore, I am not being invasive--HE is, not me!!!!
If he doesn't what me to know something then he shouldn't be in my house doing whatever--he should keep his sh!t in his own home, on his own computer.
And you are right, you are not in my position--- but step back and look at it from my point of view---- someone is entering my house (the house I own and pay the mortgage on) without my permission or knowledge and making a point of hiding the fact he is here. I have every right to know what is going on in my house--regardless of who is doing it! Ultimately I will be held responsible for anything that happens from my home.
-wendi