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I think that part of the beauty of Greek life is that it forces you to get along with people who have views that oppose your own. In the rest of your life, you can choose to be friends only with Democrats, or only with Jewish people, or only with people who are pro-life -- but in a sorority you're not the only one making the decision, and more often than not there is going to be something about at least one or two or a handful of your sisters that you really don't agree with, but you're going to have to see them at least once or twice a week for the next four years.
I think the solution is no different than in the rest of your life -- you have to realize that you and your sisters are different people and you're both free to believe what you want to believe. Neither of you are going to be able to convert each other, and if you try to, it will only lead to a lot of unncessary drama.
I know that there are a lot of people in my life who have views that significantly differ from mine, but we still like to discuss things and find out what the other knows that we don't know. And if it comes to the place where we both know we can't discuss something without things getting heated, we just avoid the topic.
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