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As to the parties... I partied more when I wasn't in a sorority then I did once I joined. I didn't have enough time for it all. Though I did meet my non-greek boyfriend through a sorority sister at a party held by her friends from High school!
I understand why you feel so confused about the whole thing. Even in America there are people that don't understand the "whole" greek thing, they feel that we are "buying our friends" because we pay dues to be a part of a group, but wouldn't members of clubs like the Rotary Club or Lions clubs be doing the same thing?
But not the point... I understand also because I worked one summer with some ladies from England, Wales, and New Zealand and it was a foregn concept to them also.
I don't think that any of these questions are offensive and welcome any question that I can answer.
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"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.
Each day has enough trouble of its own!" ~Matthew 6:34
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