[LouisaMay]

A chapter is a sub-division of a National (or International) organization. New members join these chapters at individual schools. Some sororities or fraternities are "local" which means there is only one chapter.

The reasons a new member chooses a particular sorority or fraternity vary widely. Some are attracted to the enthusiasm of the current members. Some like the community service the chapter or National organization does. Some feel more welcome in one over another.

If you are not invited to join your favorite group, you may try again with another organization or you may find other ways to spend your time. Some people who do not find a spot in a sorority or fraternity start their own group. This is how many local organizations came into being.

The "cult-like" image is pretty silly. In my past experience with a sorority, the "secrets" only provided a special bond among members. These "secrets" are not secret because they are bad or evil or illegal. They are simply private and special. Cults have ritualistic practices, but fraternities and sororities have rituals that are more like "ceremonies." [disclaimer...I have only been a part of two fraternal rituals, and I do not claim to know the contents of the rituals of other organizations.] Ceremonies are used throughout our culture. Weddings, graduations, confirmations, court proceedings, etc...

Hazing is not accepted universally, and the vast majority of fraternities and sororities are firmly against such practices. The hazing that continues is disturbing, unfortunate, and illegal. You are right...the fact that some groups still haze is "mad." These groups are continuing a "tradition" that is plain WRONG, and they are giving other law-abiding groups a bad image.

Each organization has its own "true meaning," but Greek Life comes down to one basic purpose: to form lifelong bonds of friendship between members while providing opportunities for leadership and community service. The heart of Greek Life is loving relationships...not abuse...not scary secrets...not cultish brainwashing.

I hope this helps!

LM