don't record the guy's chats or whatever.
That is absolutely, 100% throwing yourself into the middle of things; if he's 'e-cheating', are you going to tell the wife? No? Then WHY log his activities?
If, as you claim, the violation of your space is the issue, just password-protect your PC, and change the garage door code. The guy has no rights to your space if you don't want him there.
If, as I suspect, you're more hung up on the cheating aspect . . . then you've just inserted yourself into anything that comes out of it, whether it be his cheating, or his leather and studs fethish, or whatever comes out of your keylogging.
I wouldn't want to know, either way, I'd just want him off my shit.
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