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Originally posted by XOAlumXO
I just realized I have a crush on a GREAT friend of mine. It kinda just happened. Not sure how to bridge that gap. We run around in the same circle so it may be a little wierd..
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Crushes on GREAT friends never end good if they go beyond a crush. The reason being because somewhere down the line the spark is gonna end but the two of you will still be in the same circle. Catch my drift? For example, my friend Kristin is probably my best girl friend in the world. But, up until this past year she liked me insanely. I never liked her in that way. People thought I was crazy. She even got breast implants to try to win me over, it didnt work. So, since she coouldn't win me, she ended up sleeping with one of my best friends. She still hung out with my circle. Anytime I had a party she was there. And now that we've moved from Gainesville, I found out she moved to Jacksonville like me. Now she has a new boyfriend. They've been dating for a long time now. He's actually a good friend of mine. I hang out with them a couple times a week and they cook dinner for me. However, I don't have the heart to tell him how she was back in the day. And one night I thought it was going to come out while we were partying at my place in the wee hours of the morning. Surprisingly, she ended up saying that she's never met a guy like me whos never tried anything on her and she's so glad that we never did anything and instead kept our friendship so that now it has become even more closer than what its ever been.
The moral: A crush is just that, a crush. Later on down the road you'll be glad you didnt persue it any further and instead remained good friends.