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Well, as my mother always said "You don't try to hide things that don't need to be hidden". If said guy is just maybe borrowing your computer for a midday stock update or something, then why on earth wouldn't he just say "Wendi, is it cool if I come use your computer to check my stocks during the day?" I'd agree to it. But the fact that he's hiding it not only from his wife but from you guys as well (and he's USING your computer in YOUR house) leads me to believe that something is rotten in Denmark. I'd say just go ahead and lock this guy out. You're a far more tolerant person than I. Looks like he needs to face his problems and you should not enable him to continue hiding them. You are in such an awkward position but I'd say you're handling it well.
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