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I have been a Phi Mu now for a couple of years. I think that it probably wasn't an easy descion for your chapter, but yet you have to trust in your chapter that they are making the right descion for you and them. Not everything is always peaches and cream. Phi Mu has some sides that are really hard that we try to ignore. Just remeber she is there for you through good and bad. I I understand that you have some health problems that you don't feel like talking about but I am sure that they didn't have an effect on the outcome of this situation. I do have some questions however. Is this your first time on probation? And you said you were on acd. prob. what were your grades? I think before everyone starts assuming things, these questions should be answered.
Just remeber that even though this hurts it might be in your best intrest. And I am sorry if this seems un sisterly, but it is probably on of the most sisterly things to do. (helping a sister) School comes first. I think that it is unfair of you to want to stay on probabtion and not have to attend any functions yet still want to go to formal. Formal is a privaledge.
Where you at the meeting when your chapter voted? I think that if you have such a problem to post a message like this then you should say something to your chapter. You can bring anything back up at meetings.
Good luck!
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