I agree, you can't change him, unless he wants to change. I guess I was fortunate that my ex was romantic, without me saying anything... he surprised me with rose petals in my room and a trail leading to my bed and on my bed with roses in a formation and wrote a sweet letter explaining the symbolism of all the roses and the way they were situated. But anyway, he may have been romantic like that, but there were other things I would have liked to change about him, and when I'd try, he'd be like you can't change who I am. So I think that if you can learn to accept and love who he is, then you should be with him.
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