My
strong suggestion: Next time you meet a woman like that, take her "NO" seriously, hop out of bed, put your clothes on and either take 5 minutes off to "cool down" or get to steppin'. Better she stays in bed horny and alone than bring you in court on rape charges because she couldn't make up her mind. Better that the mood gets broken than you possibly arrested or imprisioned.
Ask her what she wants and get it laid out in black and white -- easier to do this when one of you is not in the bed. If she's still unsure, it's probably best to leave, no matter how frustrated you may get or how close you were. And under NO circumstances try to "convince" her. Most willing participants don't need "convincing."
Some women simply have a pathological need to feel desired and tease other men in this manner. These are very dangerous women to be playing with. Like I said, there are other willing participants that don't need convincing of any kind.
Women who do this: please don't. If something goes wrong and it turns into rape, you will have a hard time proving it in court, especially if you keep saying "no" and your actions indicate otherwise. Be thankful if you're with a man who listens to your "No" and backs off -- many don't.
