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I, myself, reached a point where I realized I'd never get what I wanted from this guy.
I found that he didn't respect my needs (I never wanted a dime spent on me, I wanted time and words and touches). I found it was disrespectful to me for him to barely even try and I need more.
I left....I'm NOT saying you should, but if this is a major point of contention, and you don't think you can live a lifetime without tender romantic gestures, better to stop now.
Also, I'm telling you, PREMARITAL COUNSELING! Talking to each other with a professional in the room is SOOOOO beneficial!! Talk about all your hopes and fears, annoyances and grievances in a neutral atmosphere and get useful advice!
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