Savvy & Refined,
I apologize if this topic is offensive to you. Rape situations is a hot topic again in light of the Kobe case.
I'm just trying to gain understanding into the mind of some women. The story was general...but has happened to me a little to many times to be coincidental. Its basically: I have a girl with her clothes off...or almost completely off, and we're both touching and getting hot & heavy. I go to put it in, and she says no. I obey, and back up off her. SHE then starts touching and rubbing on ME in a sexual way
. I think she changed her mind so I participate, go to put it in, and she say no again...so I obey again. etc. etc.etc...Then she finally lets me do my thing.
The issue is if she doesn't want to have sex, why is she touching on me and kissing me in a sexual way? Why is she naked? I don't understand it. I assume she wants it, but is unsure...so I say things to make her feel like its OK...finally I convince her...I guess. I just wanted to know if any women had any insight into this behavior...maybe some have done this to guys...or know girls who do it.
The only reason I didn't bounce in these situations is because I was 'thirsty' and really hot and excited. Thats just being honest. If I knew in advance that things would play out like that, I wouldn't have even bothered with these women.
P.S. If this topic is uninteresting to anyone...you aren't obligated to respond
