i've had friends who were greeks and nongreeks before and after i intook. my perception of them and how they acted was strictly personal. i didn't automatically say all XYZ's are like this because so so acted like this. nah, i knew them as people and didn't feel the need to lump them all into one stereotype. i represent Iota Phi Theta, but not all of my beliefs are going to coincide with what some of my frat believe.