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Originally posted by AKA2D '91
Most black men find it easier to settle for a hood rat because...
.....he doesn't have to work to improve himself.
.....he already feels like he's better than she is, so she should be grateful to have him.
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Men and Women of GC, what are your thoughts on this? I borrowed this from another group
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Not to offend anyone but most of these, IMO, were HUGE generalizations. I think the maturity/cultural background of the person influences what you look for. We all take weird turns through adolescence but as you mature and understand what makes you solid, you're drawn to and seek out someone capable of meeting your emotional, intellectual and spiritual needs (and vice versa) not just focus on the physical (as we like to do in high school
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Thinking back on it, I can't ever say I ever dated a "hood rat." ...I thought about one who wore her jeans exceptionally well, but I pulled up.