Yes, I do feel bad for the man... he has been hurt by love. Being 21 myself (and a Computer Science major) I feel his pain... We all have been in love before but not had it given back to us. But his approach to healing himself is all wrong... What he needs is
real love from a real woman who won't string him and lead him on. He also needs to look up love in the life dictionary (Also Known As the Bible)
1 Corinthians 13:4-8
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
This is what true love is. If a person cannot demonstrate these qualities to you, and they tell you they love you... well they are pulling your chain
True love is experienced by the actions of your partner... love is not an
emotion
per se. You must show love, not feel it. I prayed and asked the Lord if he could work in Mr. Curly's

life and heal his heart, and help him love again, because without love, there is no hope.
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In complete darkness we are all the same... It is only our knowledge and wisdom that separates us... Don't let your eyes deceive you
Janet Jackson