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I've never thought of my big being "above" me or my little being "below" me. My little and little little were both older than me, for Pete's sake. My big is older than her big.
The point of this whole thread was about problems with relationships being changed, whether you call it a big, sapphire, key sis, diamond, poopoo pal, whatever. It's NOT because anyone has a higher or lower status, it's because people are saying "I don't feel close to you, so I am severing this relationship" and feelings are hurt. Unless you stop calling someone your big, sapphire, key sis, diamond, poopoo pal, whatever, after pledging is over and never acknowledge them as such again, the same problem would exist.
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