I've never really heard of someone just switching bigs/littles before, so that does seem kind of weird...
I have, however, seen some people become 'adopted' by another big if their own big was really busy or graduated right after getting a little.
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Has anyone else ever ran into anything like this or have any idea what (or if) we should say anything to the Chapter.
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Some people might disagree with me, but I personally do not feel anything should be said to the chapter.
While it might be really upsetting to hear that 'families' are dying out because littles are switching or whatever, you have to remember that the whole 'family' thing is a small detail of being part of your sorority. What you should really be concerned about is if the chapter is doing OK and that the *chapter* isn't closing. 'Families' are just a small part of the overall organization that you are a part of and love. If there are no longer members of the 'family' of bigs/lils, then so what? I'm sure you and your fellow sisters still love your sorority no matter what
