so here's my take
When this story came out, I sorta felt sick for quite a few reasons...before I say why, here's a story for you...a couple of you know it...A few years ago I was sexually assaulted while under the influence by a so called friend. I never pressed charges. Should I have? Of course. But believe you me, the first few days afterwards are not typically moments of lucidity. At the time, I felt that maybe since I was drunk it didn't "count" as rape, or that maybe he didn't realize I was drunk (I later calculated my BAC was around .45...yeah, as in nearly fatal). I didn't say a word for about a week, and finally I told my best friend about it. He was furious at the guy and at that point I think the severity of the situation hit me. To say I was emotionally f***ed up afterwards is such an understatement. I found out I was pregnant only when I miscarried about 2 weeks later. Talk about a blessing. To this day I regret not "doing something" about it. Not only did I let him get away w/ it, but I actually have class with him. It's a daily struggle.
However, if I had reported him and then found out my name, reputation, etc would be public, I would have hestitated to go through with it. If indeed she is being truthful (and we should all give her the benefit of the doubt as we are the accused) then for the Globe to do that is really, um, illegal, not to mention just wrong morally/ethically speaking. I think in general info such as this needs to be kept in confidence between the authorities and legal representatives. The media has no place in a rape trial, no matter WHO is involved.
And if she isn't telling the truth, I will be the first among many to just absolutely tar and feather her sorry a**.
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