Yes, Yes and Yes. I still talk to my ex-boyfriends. I loved them at one time, we have spent many hours, days and months together and we have shared special times. If you are true friends with the person you were with, why should you just kick them to the curb because the relationship is over? I have more than one ex that is still my friend. We do NOT have sexual relations either. It didn't happen like this over night though. There is one main thing to keep in mind though, if there is a current girlfriend in the picture who is bothered by me (or a man in my life who is bothered by my ex), we go on about our business.
Yes, "he" is still my friend but it's not that serious. I have other friends and a life that occupies my time just fine. He is my friend and will always be. I hope my ex's find women who will make them happy because it's not happenin' over here. They may be cool friends but it didn't work then and the interest on my end is GONE. If I would give any one of my ex's an opportunity at a night of passion, they would jump at the chance so do beware. If the ex wants him, it's not cool.
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