What's the one thing everyone needs to do before they are married? Learn who they are.
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		| Originally posted by imsohappythatiama When just living together, you don't have that same committment that you do when you're married...so your coping strategies are *utterly* different.
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 That is 
so untrue. Commitment is a frame of mind. It is not where you live or a piece of paper or a ceremony. Marriage doesn't make you commited - being commited makes you commited.
For my thoughts on living together see this: 
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...286#post543286