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Originally posted by MereMere21
Why do you get to wait but women who want to abort, because they aren't ready, can't? Is that the prize for getting lucky and not having a surprise pregnancy?
*not meant to offend, just curious
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No offense taken. If I were "suprised" I wouldn't get to wait either. I would have to deal with the consequences of my choices and I don't feel that a a way to deal with it should be killing the baby. And, I guess if you put it that way, that is the "prize", but more often that not, it's not luck that gets you to that prize. And before you say it, yes I know that birth control fails and there is nothing that is 100%.
AggieAXO, as I understand it from 2 sets of friends who have recently adopted, there is a great demand for ALL newborns that have no medical or physcial problems. One is a African American couple and they had to wait well over a year for an AA baby and the other is a biracial (AA/White) who wanted a biracial baby. They also had a long wait, just not sure how long.