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I definitely agree that people should live on their own and have a good idea of their likes/dislikes/preferences/beliefs/who they are as a person. I also agree in talking about the future, money, children, etc...
For sure I am on the same page as Delt Alum though - he had better understand what kind of a commitment marriage is when he marries me (whoever he may be). Divorce will not be an option.
I met a women once on the day of her 50th wedding anniversary and everyone was asking her how they made it work and how they stayed in love the whole time. She said something like "Are you kidding? We weren't in love the whole time. We went days, weeks, even months and years not being "in love" sometimes... but we did always love each other. We stuck through the bad times and the good times would always come back." I loved that... just the idea that it's not always candlelight and roses and romance -sometimes there are hard times, but that person is always your best friend and you never leave them and eventually you have that romance again.
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