Marriage as work
I actually (respectfully) disagree. I know that it sounds romantique to say that marriage may be work but should not feel like it.....but, there are days that both of you will want to "win" and be very adamant about it. Not everything in life is a compromise or able to be compromised.
All of the married couples that I know (including Mr.Silver and me) who have been married over ten years have had bad days, months, or even years in our marriages. The longer that I am married, the more that I can see how much strength and effort it takes to stay *happliy* married in today's society.
Just my humble 2 cents,
Silver
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