the only thing with our christmas mixer is that it's with a fraternity that we have mixed with several times in the past few years, and it's always the best time!!! so this year, i'm trying to think of something really cool....i've come up with adopting several families and then we have to go buy and wrap and deliver all their gifts, cookies, a scavenger hunt around the DC christmas festival every year...but again i don't know what to do and I just wanted a few more ideas? The massage idea is really cute, but I think with a fraternity some girls may feel uncomfortable