Tonight's BET Tonight is about how to be a BAP. It's a woman on here (a psychologist) that is getting on my nerves. I'm sitting here trying to find out about BAPs, but she keeps butting in talking about how its setting Black women back and excluding some and setting unrealistic ideals. :rolling eyes: Please!!!! They have said God knows how many times that its not to be taken seriously!!! Anyways.....from what I have heard on the show from the author, I would be a "butterfly BAP". Watching this has finally made me actually want to go and get the book. I need something new to read anyway.
(I'm really frustrated right now and felt the need to vent

!!)
P.S. I just checked my CC email, and apparently there is a boycott of the BAP Handbook.
[This message has been edited by InquiringMind (edited August 04, 2001).]