I read the book a couple weeks ago. It was cute, I liked how it went from birth all the way to marriage. I am a butterfly/betty according to the book because my background is butterfly but my personality is betty. I don't consider myself a BAP, but I will admitt that I could relate to most of the things in the book. I couldn't call myself a BAP because I am not rich, yet
I agree with SunnySmile, there are a lot of bogus BAPS. I think a true BAP has the entire package- the attitude, look, ect.